Dilfer Loses His Shit

Dilfer is pretty well fucked.

Doesn't mean the kid didn't deserve the Bobby Knight treatment. Don't twist. Most of them do.

 
Dilfer is pretty well fucked.

Doesn't mean the kid didn't deserve the Bobby Knight treatment. Don't twist. Most of them do.
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Boys in general need lil taste of a belt in their life, builds character
 
I don’t have a problem with any of it

That being said…..At the end of the day you can’t put your hands on a kid. I’m sure he’ll probably lose his job

You can see the very moment he realized it
 
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I don’t have a problem with any of it

That being said…..At the end of the day you can’t put your hands on a kid. I’m sure he’ll probably lose his job

You can see the very moment he realized it
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Yep. Hands off. That's not a rule with any real leeway. You can be a hard ass coach without physical contact anyways. Jesus. What a nut job to be that out of control pissed at someone else's kid.
 
Dilfer is pretty well fucked.

Doesn't mean the kid didn't deserve the Bobby Knight treatment. Don't twist. Most of them do.
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Boys in general need lil taste of a belt in their life, builds character
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Spare the rod, spoil the FireCohen
 
If my son was a sarcastic prick and I knew it, I’d be fine with this. Play silly games, win silly prizes.
 
He didn't hit, shove, etc. Kid was wearing pads, Dilfer guided him off the field. If this isn't no big deal, we're doomed. If the kid was a prick, I seen zero issue with this.
 
If my son was a sarcastic prick and I knew it, I’d be fine with this. Play silly games, win silly prizes.
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Most parents of sarcastic pricks, would not be fine with this. That’s the reason their kids are sarcastic pricks in the first place.
 
If my son was a sarcastic prick and I knew it, I’d be fine with this. Play silly games, win silly prizes.
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Most parents of sarcastic pricks, would not be fine with this. That’s the reason their kids are sarcastic pricks in the first place.
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People love to blame the kids and not the parents that raised them.

He barely touched the kid, but will still likely lose his job over it. If my coach had to do that to me, my old man would have disassembled my ass as soon as I got home. Then he'd have put my arm back on, made me write an apology letter with it, then taken it back off and hit me with it a couple more times.

 
If my son was a sarcastic prick and I knew it, I’d be fine with this. Play silly games, win silly prizes.
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Most parents of sarcastic pricks, would not be fine with this. That’s the reason their kids are sarcastic pricks in the first place.
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People love to blame the kids and not the parents that raised them.

He barely touched the kid, but will still likely lose his job over it. If my coach had to do that to me, my old man would have disassembled my ass as soon as I got home. Then he'd have put my arm back on, made me write an apology letter with it, then taken it back off and hit me with it a couple more times.
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Heard a senior Army leader once say “there’s no such thing as bad soldiers, only bad leaders”

Same thing applies to dogs, kids, employees.
 
You throw you hat on the ground like that, you done for a long time, if I was coach.

I don't think he did anything too wrong. I guess always be careful "touching" someone when it's heated.
 
I can see (and live in) a gigantic disconnect between kids and coaches, especially coaches "of a certain age", which I am one. Kids have been empowered to show their emotions, and speak their minds. I've never laid hands on a kid in 35 years, but played for guys that had no issues grabbing your jersey or face mask to make a point with a face full of spittle, and / or then run you until you puke. Today, that is considered neanderthal behavior.

In retrospect, I can honestly say that in my "playing career" (LOL), I never initiated a conversation with a coach, ever, about anything. As Tony LaRussa said, "I've got an office, he's got a locker". Now, all I get is "my hitting / pitching instructor said..." or my favorite, "Have you seen the video on youtube?"...FML, and now Trent can "spend more tim with family"...
 
Eh. He shouldn’t have grabbed him like that, of course. But also you don’t really know the context about what’s going on here, and their relationship.

Sometimes kids that get coached the hardest like that are the ones the coaches like the most and are pushing.
 
I'm all for tough love when needed. I think coaches have to be given leeway to come down hard on kids where appropriate. I had a reputation as a hard ass coach when I was doing coach pitch, 9u soccer, and grade school hoops. I carried that all the way through 15 year olds in baseball and soccer. Most parents saw the method to the madness and were fine with it. Some wanted to talk things over after practice to make sure of what kind of guy I was.

I never had anyone quit on me and only a family or two who tried to avoid getting their marshmallow kid on my team again. Most were fine with it. I played bad cop and good cop as needed. Kids and supportive parents caught on and grew to appreciate and understand...follow my my rules and everything is zen.

But you can't put hands on kids, at least not in front of people. No parent is going to tolerate a coach physically manhandlinh their kid in public. I understand you guys saying there's no context, it didn't look that bad, etc and even agree. Anyone who denies that they'd react if that was their kid in the video is being dishonest though.

Hands off. You just can't break that rule.
 
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